Tuesday, March 29, 2022

Age takes a toll and time runs short


 

I spent Saturday at a memorial service for Mike, a friend from college, who died suddenly. It was a good service, lots of memories were shared, and I was grateful to have been there.

Mike wasn't the first of my friends from high school or college to pass. Three others preceded him, but each died years ago, when we were all in our mid-20s, and the rest of us could expect to live long, active lives. Two of those early deaths involved rare diseases and the third involved a freak workplace accident. The unusual circumstances involved provided some solace for the rest of us. 

And that's what makes Mike's death difficult for so many who shared the pleasure of knowing him. Mike was our age. He was the first in our group to die when older individuals are supposed to pass from natural causes. His death is a stark reminder that we have more days behind us than ahead of us. 

One could see it and feel it at Mike's memorial service. Gregarious men, ones who typically crack wise and share loud laughs, sat in silence, mumbling only a few words and offering feeble handshakes. A few sat silently, locked in a hundred-yard stare. I recognized the stare. I've worn it several times since learning of Mike's death. 

For those of us who shared our college years at Northern Illinois University with Mike, his death hit hard. It wasn't just the shock of the news or the realization we'll never again share a conversation with him. 

His death forced us to look again at the health issues many of us developed in recent years, the growing list of medications we take to manage conditions common among those advanced in their years, and the inventory of new pains we have in various parts. It's in the odd noises we make when doing once-simple tasks, like pushing ourselves up from a chair, lifting a fork, or taking a pee. 

It's there in those vacant, hundred-yard stares we present. It's as though we can hear the Grim Reaper passing near us and whispering, "Age takes a toll, and time runs short."

I met Mike at the student newspaper at NIU. Mike worked in the sports department, and I worked in the newsroom. We became friends and shared the experiences of college life in the early 1980s. I was 20 when I met Mike.

I'm in my sixth decade now, so are my friends from high school and college. Some are retired, many more are planning for the day they will leave the workforce. Most are parents, and many are grandparents. And all of that came sooner than expected.

We ponder Mike's death and wonder how we reached this point in time so quickly. More than 40 years rolled by, one after another. The young man I attended parties with and stood next to at football games, grew old and his body grew weak, until it gave out one night while he slept. 

I look at my reflection in the mirror and wonder when my body will give up. And will I be blessed to pass as I sleep in my bed?

Age takes a toll and time runs short.

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Sunday, March 13, 2022

The many types of 'two kinds of people'

 


There are two kinds of people in this world, and I've learned about many of them from one friend or another. It turns out there are actually many types of those two kinds of people. And it won't surprise you that belong to several types of those two kinds of people. 


Here are few of the types I've heard about:

Those who put ketchup on a hot dog and those who do not.

Those who like dogs and those who like cats.

Those who shut-off the lights when leaving a room and those who do not.

Those who use a car's turn indicator before executing a turn and those who do not.

Those who like the Beatles and those who don't

Those who close their mouths when chewing food and those who do not.

Those who sit quietly when watching a movie and those who ask questions from the opening scene to the closing credits.

Those who drink coffee and those who do not.

Those who are Cubs fans and those who support that other Chicago MLB team.

Those who golf and those who are happy.

Those who will hold a door for those and those who will not.

Those who make "to do" lists and those who do not.

Those who appreciate sarcasm and those who do not.

Those who use napkins and those who use the back of a hand or a shirt sleeve. 

Those who tie their shoes and those who do not.

Those who fish and those who do not.

Those who like Western movies and those who don't. 

Those that push a chair in when they leave a table and those who do not. 

Those who remain young at heart and those who do not. 

Those who write about other people and those who do not. 

I am confident there are many other "kinds" out there. Your contributions are welcome.

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Friday, March 4, 2022

Bogdanovich and contemporary audiences

 


Film director and movie historian Peter Bogdanovich died in early January, and his passing sparked an ongoing discussion that I'm still sharing (and enjoying) with several friends who, like me, are movie fans.

Our dispute involves the timelessness of Bogdanovich's films, particularly his early works. My friends insist that a classic is classic. Film classice are classics today and will be considered classics years from now, they say. I think that general statement applies to some films, but not necessarily to the ones Bogdanovich directed. 

For those not familiar with Bogdanovich's career, he was considered a film genius in the 1970s. He was 31 when he directed 1971's "The Last Picture Show," a movie that earned eight Oscar nominations, winning two. It was his second movie as director. Critics called it a masterpiece and compared Bogdanovich to Orson Welles and his film "Citizen Kane."

During the next two years, Bogdanovich directed the popular comedy "What's Up Doc?" and "Paper Moon," a hugely popular hit that was set during the Great Depression. The movie earned four Oscar nominations, and a win for Best Supporting Actress. 

But that was the high point of his film-making career. From the mid-'70s onward, Bogdanovich struggled professionally and personally. He directed movies that were slammed by critics and unpopular with audiences, although there were notable exceptions along the way, "Saint Jack" (1979) and "Mask" (1985). 

He twice filed for bankruptcy and had a string of failed relationships, including two marriages that ended in divorce.

Bogdanovich continued working throughout his personal challenges, and had a recurring role in HBO's "The Sopranos." 

He was a gifted writer and film historian. I've read a couple of his books and recommend his written work to those with an interest in American film history. Bogdanovich will always be linked to his early film success, but I think he'll be remembered most for his work as a writer. 

Many serious movie fans (including my friends) insist "The Last Picture Show" is a timeless classic, one that audiences today appreciate as much as the audiences of the early 1970s. I agree the film is a classic piece of art, but I don't think it is accessible to contemporary audiences. 

"The Last Picture Show" is set in a small Texas town that is barely hanging on in the late 1940s. The film is shot in black and white and features a cast that was largely unknown at the time it was released. Critics and audiences alike embraced the movie's stark black and white images. It was an effective device for telling this particular story. 

Bogdanovich used black and white film again in 1973 to tell "Paper Moon," the Depression-era story of a con man and his child partner. Audiences loved the film, as did Hollywood. However, it's difficult to say how much of its success was due to the use of black and white film.  It featured an interesting story and starred a charming Tatum O'Neal, then age 10, as a young hustler, playing opposite her real-life father, Ryan O'Neal. 

Bogdanovich's decision to shoot in black and white paid off in the early '70s, when audiences still included many who lived through the time periods in which "The Last Picture Show" and "Paper Moon" were set. Many had memories of the Great Depression, the post-World War II years, and they grew up when watching movies and television in black and white was the only option. Color film wasn't widely used until the 1960s, so watching a black and white movie was a familiar experience for them.

None of that can be said for much of today's audiences. Nearly all of those alive during the Depression and World War II are no longer with us, and the last American TV shows shot entirely in black and white were made in the late 1960s.  

Contemporary audiences want to view films featuring vibrant colors and do not relate well to black and white film, probably the primary reason Hollywood rarely produces a black and white today.  

That is one reason why I think Bogdanovich's biggest films have limited appeal today.

The second reason concerns the stories Bogdanovich told through film. He made character-driven movies, a quality common to the movies Hollywood produced 50 years ago. Today's scripts are action driven. They emphasize computer-generated special effects, explosions, and are set at a pace that rarely allows for character development. Hollywood also loves franchise films, productions that allow for one installment after another. 

The content of Hollywood productions moved in a significantly different direction during the past 35 years, and the type of movies made in the late 1960s and 1970s simply are not made today. Many factors contributed to that shift, and I think changes in the reading habits of American audiences is a key reason, though it receives little notice.

The simple fact is that Americans read fewer books today than they did half a century ago. Yes, many Americans read a good deal today, mostly in the form of texts, emails, or other electronic data. But the Pew Research Center and others who study the topic consistently note that a growing number of American adults say they didn't read a single book in the last year. 

The Center maintains records about American reading habits dating to the early 1970s. In 1976, just a few years after Bogdanovich made "Paper Moon," about six percent of those surveyed told Pew they had not read a single book during the past year. The number increased to nearly 24 percent in 2015 and stands at 27 percent today. 

American film audiences, particularly younger segments, have shorter attention spans and have less interest in character-driven stories than audiences found in movie houses a generation ago. And much of that is attributable to their aversion to books.

My friends acknowledge my arguments but insist they apply only to the general category of film audiences, not to fans with a sincere appreciation for good movies. With those viewers, "The Last Picture Show" and "Paper Moon" are accessible and will always be viewed as timeless classics, my friends insist. 

They might be right. But Bogdanovich found huge success making movies that were popular with general audiences, and the habits of those audiences are not practiced by today's movie audiences.  

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